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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

Need a loan: Anyone know of someone who wants to make extra money by loaning me $3500 pay it back in 18

Or emanciated...Ill be the guy shrivelled up in a closet when they find me with s top ramen bag on top of me...lol..hopefully it wont get to that point...thanx for caring...I keep hoping my sales on my book will jump but it just kinda plods along....no worries Ive been down before....seesm to come and go in stages with me I guess.....
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

Need a loan: Anyone know of someone who wants to make extra money by loaning me $3500 pay it back in 18

yea I could hit up a few more...lol
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

Need a loan: Anyone know of someone who wants to make extra money by loaning me $3500 pay it back in 18

I did, they gave me a bag of potatoes, 5 things of top ramen, some powdered milk and a few oranges and some other stuff like nutrition bars:)
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Dobguy1   in reply to Sent2   on

Need a loan: Anyone know of someone who wants to make extra money by loaning me $3500 pay it back in 18

Yea, this aint the place to ask...lol...just dont happen here....maybe a site that specializes in loans or I dont know.....like I said in a precious post this should be named crisis advice not aidpage
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There are some pretty tough situations in here no doubt...Ive read alot of them and it

There are some pretty tough situations in here no doubt...Ive read alot of them and it really is depressing to say the least...the one thing Ive realized is that people by and large will offer suggestionsbut its upto seek out help. Ive helped others in the past even where I live and I was rewarded with the person stealing the tags off my truck becuase he had an illegally tageed vehicle..I was tickedo ff to say the least but then I figured well just another freakin loser....Ive been down before hell Ive lived with nothin Ive been in fights backin San Diego where people will kill for a damn cigarette...Ive gone from that to being a homeowner and a tradesman...when I was on top of the world driving a nice camaro...100 grand i the bank to finding out I had HIV and almost died from crytococcal meningitis...I had my life savings wiped out....Ive also had good times...ive surfed all over the world Ive competed in pro events and Ive had some cool friednds who even now still got my back.....I dont blame noone for the stuff Ive been through...Its all on me..and Ive supported myself since I was 17 only when I almost died did I finally have to admit....I gotta quit working as an electrician...its ok though stuff doesnt phase me anymore...Ive lived in 10 different states, the only one I call home is SD Calif....but even through it all I continue to have hope.....I write alot...it helps with cognitive issuesfrom meningitis and Aids....I still work out everyday....I figure ya do what ya can....I play guitar and try and learn new ones....I I figured out how to publish my my book on Audible and then did it...the thinking that there is some magic pill or person that is going to ride up on a white horse and solve your problems is just not realistic thinking...its not gonna happen...not here and not anywhere.....I think people have to accept the fact that money is not going to solve their problems...money helps as a tool but if your in this position I doubt you have the skills to actually handle finances and noone is going to help someone who is in that situation..Money whther it be a dollar of ten thousand is worthless if its in the wrong hands...My disability money is nothing not much anyway but I managed to budget it, dont know how...I know how it is to be totally broke so I know the value of a dollar....Ive also had 10s of thousands of dollars and it didnt make me feel any richer or a better person...its just money, its not me..the person......so if it can be any helpto anyone here...think about what you really think you would accomplish by having more money....especially if it was just handed to you....would you blow it in a New York minute or actually feel that it would honestly help worth pondering.....
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Hiya yesterday there was a robbery 50 feet from my place, mostly african american

Hiya yesterday there was a robbery 50 feet from my place, mostly african american kids..19-20 yrs old that pull these things off around here cause its down and dirty durham NC....anyhoo...the guy got caught in the act and the owners big black dog went chasing after the robber, the robber pulls a gun and shoots the dog dead on the spot...then takes off through the woods, thats what we have here in Durham NC....I remember when I was a Marine here int he 80s North Carolina was a cool place to be, now coming back years later i see how much has changed, its too political no jobs worth a damn and corupt local politics. I honestly think these people think completely backwards...almost like Ive got an idea lets start here and move backwards instead of forward...lol...never in my life I have I lived in a place that has so many social and economic problems....and I am from a biker town in San Diego
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help in time of need, How are you today?: Hi everyone, hope all is well...I see theres alot of activity here,

Hi everyone, hope all is well...I see theres alot of activity here, Ive got a publisist for my book "My life, a life story of a man infected" on Amazon...its taken a while but looks promising for getting exposure...theres always something to do even when the chips r down....take it from me...Im living with something that 15 years ago was killing people Ive been living with it 17 years and this morning already walked 5 miles and biked 4....
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I read alot of these posts and it is so sad, everybody needs what this page cant provide...food clothing housing...Im sure we can all look it up for ourselves but getting it is the problem...services are limited for everyone unless you know so and so who knows so and so in communities...its easy to provide a link and say here ya go...doesnt help when the power company is turning off the power. I think most come here thinking someone will help them here..like I mean really help...it doesnt happen, its just the way it is....the people here are here that need help not here to help. It is a strange thing here...Ive had a page here since 07 I see and nope...nobody has come to help...but I really wouldnt expect them too...it just doesnt work that way. My point is this seems to be a bit misleading "Aidpage" maybe change it to "Crisis Advice page" seems to be a bit more fitting and truthful...
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Dobguy1   in reply to Anonymous40784   on

broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

cool....lol..
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

i know.....specially when they want a credit card...i mean cmon...I dont have a credit card, I have a debit card....thats it.....i used to have credit cardsand tore them up when I started going down the drain...now Im just a man exisiting trying to hold on running like a madman in the rain to the store dodging lighting and rain....lol....yesterday I had to run back and slipped in a mudpile and almost broke my ankle...I cant handle that anymore....its not worth it.....I played the martyr too long for companies and found when your no longer needed you get sidelined...so i turned into a bum i guess....but I still beleive in hope regardless..hope for another day and realize money is a mess....in fact all of society and the desire and need for money is rediculous....i would eat mussles off the rocks at the beach before slave away like i did since I was 17 in the Marines and all the other jobs...Navy reserves, tow truck driver, electrician...all dead ened roads that burn you out and leave you nowhere...Ive been there and done it so the bigger people could sit in their office doing medical billing....bwaaahaaa....thats what i say to it all...no more slave to society....but I do like to wear clean clothes...
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

I think the church thing was a scam....they say they will pray for finances if you give them 273 bucks....I dont believe that...Im sure its a scam.....probly legal cause they may pay off the politicians to keep them in business but for me its not good, z doubt they would even want my 8 bucks.....forget them Ill pray for myself its cheaper
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

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OIC yea its different....the people are different and dont really give a burned out surfer a chance....but I was a Marine here back in the day and then I came back years later and it wasnt cool like it was then....so now Im still stuck here.....but California is too expensive now...so its tough...I used to make good money as a sparky and even bought property but now Im lucky if I can scrape together anything at all....so I play alot of guitar...
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

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Im surviving but its tough, if I was back home in SD Calif Id be n a better place this place Im really lost......I hate the south....and dont understand the bible thing here....since Im a surfer and from calif I cantreally get a foothold....its a tough spot but at least have a pair of pants and shoes and Im still somewhat healthy just need a break.....Im not sure there is any help out here unless u got connections
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

Its ok, I bought some apples anyway
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Dobguy1   in reply to Steve19600   on

I don't think anyone actually gets any real help on here, wish I was wrong but I don't

I think your playin man....I can tell by your post your pretty intelligent...theres no help here thats correct maybe some resources of a pantry which is all Im after......but yea no cash flow you can try dateamillionaire.com rich people there....but in all honesty I think your probably not hurting.....maybe emotionally but not financially...
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

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god bless u you sweet woman...I will go to the foodbank....I see one 2 miles from me....I am tired of oatmeal but at least I have different flavors.......
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Dobguy1   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

Ive been eating oatmeal for a month...its all I have Ive gone to the church an =d they want money...Im broke....I have an ipod and a bag of oatmeal..and my car just sits....the church wanted me to plant a seed...I said Ill go to the store and get an apple and cut it up and plant the seeds, they said no we need your credit card sowe canplant the seed. I told them I only have a pair of pants and a shirt and 3 pairs of socks and 8 dollars.....they hung up on me...

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broke.: needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen

needa break....I had my car broken into and the window smashed out...I have oing tbeen struggling in Durham NC....Ive never lived in such a hustle place...so I need help....I know nobody here has money infact Im sure everyone is a brok a** bi** like me ..so say a prayer for me..Im tired of going to the dumpster to find food....sucks big time..
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Dobguy1   in reply to Dalfi   on

help,need,finance,woman,man,: Hi, I am currently in need of a sugar momma that can help me out. I will wash

wow..thought we were over that...please let it go, I hope u havent spent the last 24 hours stewing over this...I am a busy guy...if you really want to know about me, buy my book on Amazon here http://www.amazon.com/My-...
I have been places you would never dream of or attempt to go...regardless of your dire situation there is hope....read the book...it may change you beliefs about people..

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Dobguy1   in reply to Dalfi   on

help,need,finance,woman,man,: Hi, I am currently in need of a sugar momma that can help me out. I will wash

Ok goodbye to you, Im busy..I already do work...no time for this....good luck to you
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